I AM HAVING MY PERIOD AND IT MAKES ME GRUMPY LIKE NOBODY'S BUSINESS.
and i feel faint because i ate dinner with peggy & sk @ din tai fung yesterday. and a chocolate scone from starbucks.
I THINK ITS NOT ENOUGH FOR FATTY ME.
or maybe i'm just pms-ing.
funny shits bp yh & i found out at starbucks
first you have the UGLY CHICKEN PUFF.
as if that wasn't enough
....
...
..
.
there. THE UGLIER CURRY PUFF
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
TODAY AT SIM I SAW A VERY CUTE GUY I WANT TO KNOW.
HE WEARING TURQOISE GAP SHIRT AND A BLUE LEVIS JEANS AND BLACK CONVERSE SNEAKERS.
HE! TALL! AND LANKY! OMGGGGGGG!
sorry i sound like some crazy woman. and he ate the same thing as me.
and HE! WEAR FULL FRAME BLACK GLASSES AND HAVE THE CLICK FIVE KYLE PATRICK HAIRSTYLE.
wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
don't know leh. He may look ordinary to you but i like can already. i think he's not singaporean though.
NOT THAT IT MATTERS!
ok back to my period. i SIT down for 2 hours. den suddenly happily i stand up
like tap.
uh.
ok nothing to do with chemistry
here's what i saw on msn news that seemed RELATIVELY INTERESTING.
Let's analyse if i have chemistry with 2 of my closest guy friends [SK AND YH] AND OF COURSE NOT FORGETTING MR GAP
Do You Two Have Chemistry? By Amy Spencer
Sweaty palms? Sort of. A pounding heart? A bit. Even so, you’re still not completely sure there are sparks between you. Understandable: While it’d be nice to think that the earth moves and the angels sing when you’ve found The One, sometimes the signals that you two are truly meant for each other are much more subtle than that. Here are seven dead giveaways that singles often miss—know that if you spot one or more of them on your next date, that’s good news.
Subtle sign #1: You turn into a total klutz So far, you’ve dropped your fork and knocked over your water glass…and that’s before the entrées have arrived. While embarrassing, these gaffes are actually a good sign. "When you have serious chemistry, your body produces elevated levels of the neurotransmitter norepinephrine," says Helen Fisher, Ph.D., research professor of anthropology at Rutgers University. This, in turn, can make you jittery, uncoordinated, and a little accident-prone. And if you’re embarrassed by your klutziness, that’s a good sign, too! Because if you don’t care what your date thinks of you, you probably don’t think much of your date.
YH: er. i dont seem to remember any particular incident that i felt embarrassed for the many embarrassing stuff i did. HAH
SK: yeah like maybe in sec 1 and 2 lah. but that was erm. 7, 6 years ago.
MR GAP! no lah. maybe if 1 on 1 date then something stupid like
sticking my chopsticks into my nose instead of my mouth
oh. that would be humiliatingly humiliating.
Subtle sign #2: You notice a tiny dent in your date’s pinkie nail Or that your date’s hair flips up on the left but under on the right. You’ve never noticed something like that about a person before, so why now? Because when there’s true chemistry, the body’s levels of the chemical dopamine rise and lead to "imprinting," a theory of attachment discovered by German ethologist and Nobel Prize winner Niko Tinbergen. This imprinting makes you focus on this one person more clearly and notice the tiniest, most insignificant details about a person—and their possessions. Says Dr. Fisher, "His car in the parking lot looks different. His backpack looks different. His coat on the coat rack stands out. Everything about him is special, novel, unique."
YH: Yiuhei kinda looks the same from the first time i met him until now, the only time i noticed any difference was when he tried on jeans @ levis that day. oh yeah. and when he has seriously overgrown [head] hair.
SK: er. yeah lor when he went in army and got shaved bald. HAH. IS THAT CONSIDERED? oh and his lips SEEM TO HAVE GOTTEN THICKER. or as some people say, more angelina jolie-ish. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
MR GAP! considering i can remember so many details about him, including him carrying a little gc wallet and samsung slide phone even though he's sitting one table in front of me. AND he puts his entire left arm on the table while he eats. I WOULD SAY I NOTICE WAY TOO MANY THINGS.
shit man. why i cannot remember this kind of thing from my textbooks instead ah.
Subtle sign #3: You agree to split the spinach dip appetizer—and you don’t even like spinach dip! True chemistry makes us more mellow than usual—so don’t be surprised if you find yourself being agreeable with your date in ways you might not with anyone else: You don’t mind walking 10 blocks with your date from your parking spot. You’re suddenly up for seeing a Corky Romano movie. And even though you’re not a fan of Indian food, what the heck, you’ll give it another shot. "When you’re falling in love, you more easily surrender your boundaries because of a strong desire to merge with that person," explains Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Keeping the Love You Find.
YH: HAR. yiuhei doesn't ask me to share weird stuff lah. Luckily not.
SK: HAR. USUALLY WE LIKE THE SAME FOOD LAH. so most of the time i don't have to think much. but i tend to GIVE IN OKAY.
MR GAP! i think ah. EVEN IF HE ASK ME SHARE TOMATO WITH HIM I ALSO WILL!
just in case u dunno. I HATE. TOMATOES. HATE. HATE.
Subtle sign #4: The room you’re in seems brighter than usual Did someone nudge up the dimmer switch? Perhaps. But it could also mean you’re smitten, thanks to a physiological reaction discovered by University of Chicago biopsychologist Eckhard Hess, a pioneer in the area of "pupillometrics." In short, Hess found that when people look at something or someone that causes positive feelings or sparks interest, their pupils dilate in an attempt to take in more of it, also letting in more light as well.
Surprisingly, this is a no for all. the only thing i worry about is
"he can see my pimple scar or not, omg."
Subtle sign #5: You’re more fidgety during the date If you find yourself tapping your leg or otherwise fidgeting during the date, rest assured: Whether you fully know it or not, you like this person. "These are ‘displacement gestures’—what you do when you’re trying to decide what to do with yourself," explains Dr. Fisher. "If someone is smiling at you and you can’t decide if you should smile back or look away, you play with your hair. Or you run your tongue along your teeth." This happens because your brain is over-stimulated, leading you to vent the extra energy with a little self-grooming. Some experts even argue that stroking your own arm or leg indicates a subconscious desire to reach out and touch the person you’re with.
YH: Yiuhei's gestures are rather infectious. so if he ruffles his hair i might twirl mine. i just translate it into the girly way of doing it. not that yiuhei's manly or what.
SK: When sk smiles/laugh/snort/whatever, and i dunno what's happening i just smiles/laugh/snort/whatever back. HAHAHAHAHA.
MR GAP! I think i was too busy entertaining valerie, holding my chopsticks and trying to look pretty that i dont have enough energy/time/hands to do anything else.
generally im quite comfortable around my guy friends ba. HOW MANY YEARS ALREADY LAH. but i tend to do alot of hair twirling, finger nail checking, gum sucking when my daddy is talking to me. i have chemistry with my dad?
Subtle sign #6: You keep forgetting there’s food on the table When you’re out with someone who doesn’t float your boat, boy, do those garlic mashed potatoes taste good. But if you’re feeling a chemical attraction to someone, the food being served is the last thing on your mind—and not just because you’re nervous. Blame this on elevated levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine, which fuels feelings of desire. Higher levels of dopamine, according to Dr. Fisher, "give you a feeling of lightness, increased energy and a feeling of minor ecstasy. And you’re definitely not hungry!" So if your date seems disappointed that you only ate four bites of your steak, you can clear it up later by explaining what a five-star sign it really is.
YH: no. not really. if there's food on the table, both of us will be THERE'S FOOD ON THE TABLE!
SK: same as above
MR GAP! uh. i could still eat when he was in my view. so i guess. maybe on a 1 on 1 date i'll know. hurhurhur. maybe cause i was hungry just now.
FOOD = FOOD. nothing much can replace it. lah.
Subtle sign #7: You feel more “familiar” with your date than “lusty” Sure, most people think it’s a good sign when they want to jump over the table and rip their date’s clothes off. But let’s be honest—there are plenty of acquaintances you’ve wanted to do that to, and there was no deeper, underlying chemistry there. A stronger sign is that instead of feeling lust for your date, you’re overwhelmed by a feeling of familiarity—a sense of, “Gosh, I feel like I’ve known you before.” The chemistry at work, says Dr. Hendrix, “is due to the emotional center in your brain’s limbic system recognizing qualities in the person that resemble qualities about the caretakers we had during childhood.” For example, a man might recognize a feeling of being at ease and nurtured the way his mother made him feel. A woman might feel comfortable with the dry humor of her date, similar to the way her father interacted with her. “This intense familiarity triggers the release of dopamine, which can lead to that ‘Wow’ feeling,” explains Dr. Hendrix. Oh, and by this point, it’s also definitely OK to want to jump over the table and rip your date’s clothes off!
YH: nope. yiuhei feels too much like a sister to feel lust towards. I'M NOT LESBIAN.
SK: huh. simi lust. that time i like sk in sec 2 i dont even know how a penis look like. now it's just the feeling of old friends. Not a bad one.
MR GAP! nope, no lusty feeling whatsoever, maybe it was my period or maybe its because today's monday [blues]. BUT HE WAS REALLY CUTE.
chem·is·try (kěm'ĭ-strē)
The science of the composition, structure, properties, and reactions of matter, especially of atomic and molecular systems.
The composition, structure, properties, and reactions of a substance.
The elements of a complex entity and their dynamic interrelation: "Now that they had a leader, a restless chemistry possessed the group" (John Updike).
Mutual attraction or sympathy; rapport: The chemistry was good between the partners.
I AM HAVING MY PERIOD AND IT MAKES ME GRUMPY LIKE NOBODY'S BUSINESS.
and i feel faint because i ate dinner with peggy & sk @ din tai fung yesterday. and a chocolate scone from starbucks.
I THINK ITS NOT ENOUGH FOR FATTY ME.
or maybe i'm just pms-ing.
funny shits bp yh & i found out at starbucks
first you have the UGLY CHICKEN PUFF.
as if that wasn't enough
....
...
..
.
there. THE UGLIER CURRY PUFF
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
TODAY AT SIM I SAW A VERY CUTE GUY I WANT TO KNOW.
HE WEARING TURQOISE GAP SHIRT AND A BLUE LEVIS JEANS AND BLACK CONVERSE SNEAKERS.
HE! TALL! AND LANKY! OMGGGGGGG!
sorry i sound like some crazy woman. and he ate the same thing as me.
and HE! WEAR FULL FRAME BLACK GLASSES AND HAVE THE CLICK FIVE KYLE PATRICK HAIRSTYLE.
wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
don't know leh. He may look ordinary to you but i like can already. i think he's not singaporean though.
NOT THAT IT MATTERS!
ok back to my period. i SIT down for 2 hours. den suddenly happily i stand up
like tap.
uh.
ok nothing to do with chemistry
here's what i saw on msn news that seemed RELATIVELY INTERESTING.
Let's analyse if i have chemistry with 2 of my closest guy friends [SK AND YH] AND OF COURSE NOT FORGETTING MR GAP
Do You Two Have Chemistry? By Amy Spencer
Sweaty palms? Sort of. A pounding heart? A bit. Even so, you’re still not completely sure there are sparks between you. Understandable: While it’d be nice to think that the earth moves and the angels sing when you’ve found The One, sometimes the signals that you two are truly meant for each other are much more subtle than that. Here are seven dead giveaways that singles often miss—know that if you spot one or more of them on your next date, that’s good news.
Subtle sign #1: You turn into a total klutz So far, you’ve dropped your fork and knocked over your water glass…and that’s before the entrées have arrived. While embarrassing, these gaffes are actually a good sign. "When you have serious chemistry, your body produces elevated levels of the neurotransmitter norepinephrine," says Helen Fisher, Ph.D., research professor of anthropology at Rutgers University. This, in turn, can make you jittery, uncoordinated, and a little accident-prone. And if you’re embarrassed by your klutziness, that’s a good sign, too! Because if you don’t care what your date thinks of you, you probably don’t think much of your date.
YH: er. i dont seem to remember any particular incident that i felt embarrassed for the many embarrassing stuff i did. HAH
SK: yeah like maybe in sec 1 and 2 lah. but that was erm. 7, 6 years ago.
MR GAP! no lah. maybe if 1 on 1 date then something stupid like
sticking my chopsticks into my nose instead of my mouth
oh. that would be humiliatingly humiliating.
Subtle sign #2: You notice a tiny dent in your date’s pinkie nail Or that your date’s hair flips up on the left but under on the right. You’ve never noticed something like that about a person before, so why now? Because when there’s true chemistry, the body’s levels of the chemical dopamine rise and lead to "imprinting," a theory of attachment discovered by German ethologist and Nobel Prize winner Niko Tinbergen. This imprinting makes you focus on this one person more clearly and notice the tiniest, most insignificant details about a person—and their possessions. Says Dr. Fisher, "His car in the parking lot looks different. His backpack looks different. His coat on the coat rack stands out. Everything about him is special, novel, unique."
YH: Yiuhei kinda looks the same from the first time i met him until now, the only time i noticed any difference was when he tried on jeans @ levis that day. oh yeah. and when he has seriously overgrown [head] hair.
SK: er. yeah lor when he went in army and got shaved bald. HAH. IS THAT CONSIDERED? oh and his lips SEEM TO HAVE GOTTEN THICKER. or as some people say, more angelina jolie-ish. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
MR GAP! considering i can remember so many details about him, including him carrying a little gc wallet and samsung slide phone even though he's sitting one table in front of me. AND he puts his entire left arm on the table while he eats. I WOULD SAY I NOTICE WAY TOO MANY THINGS.
shit man. why i cannot remember this kind of thing from my textbooks instead ah.
Subtle sign #3: You agree to split the spinach dip appetizer—and you don’t even like spinach dip! True chemistry makes us more mellow than usual—so don’t be surprised if you find yourself being agreeable with your date in ways you might not with anyone else: You don’t mind walking 10 blocks with your date from your parking spot. You’re suddenly up for seeing a Corky Romano movie. And even though you’re not a fan of Indian food, what the heck, you’ll give it another shot. "When you’re falling in love, you more easily surrender your boundaries because of a strong desire to merge with that person," explains Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Keeping the Love You Find.
YH: HAR. yiuhei doesn't ask me to share weird stuff lah. Luckily not.
SK: HAR. USUALLY WE LIKE THE SAME FOOD LAH. so most of the time i don't have to think much. but i tend to GIVE IN OKAY.
MR GAP! i think ah. EVEN IF HE ASK ME SHARE TOMATO WITH HIM I ALSO WILL!
just in case u dunno. I HATE. TOMATOES. HATE. HATE.
Subtle sign #4: The room you’re in seems brighter than usual Did someone nudge up the dimmer switch? Perhaps. But it could also mean you’re smitten, thanks to a physiological reaction discovered by University of Chicago biopsychologist Eckhard Hess, a pioneer in the area of "pupillometrics." In short, Hess found that when people look at something or someone that causes positive feelings or sparks interest, their pupils dilate in an attempt to take in more of it, also letting in more light as well.
Surprisingly, this is a no for all. the only thing i worry about is
"he can see my pimple scar or not, omg."
Subtle sign #5: You’re more fidgety during the date If you find yourself tapping your leg or otherwise fidgeting during the date, rest assured: Whether you fully know it or not, you like this person. "These are ‘displacement gestures’—what you do when you’re trying to decide what to do with yourself," explains Dr. Fisher. "If someone is smiling at you and you can’t decide if you should smile back or look away, you play with your hair. Or you run your tongue along your teeth." This happens because your brain is over-stimulated, leading you to vent the extra energy with a little self-grooming. Some experts even argue that stroking your own arm or leg indicates a subconscious desire to reach out and touch the person you’re with.
YH: Yiuhei's gestures are rather infectious. so if he ruffles his hair i might twirl mine. i just translate it into the girly way of doing it. not that yiuhei's manly or what.
SK: When sk smiles/laugh/snort/whatever, and i dunno what's happening i just smiles/laugh/snort/whatever back. HAHAHAHAHA.
MR GAP! I think i was too busy entertaining valerie, holding my chopsticks and trying to look pretty that i dont have enough energy/time/hands to do anything else.
generally im quite comfortable around my guy friends ba. HOW MANY YEARS ALREADY LAH. but i tend to do alot of hair twirling, finger nail checking, gum sucking when my daddy is talking to me. i have chemistry with my dad?
Subtle sign #6: You keep forgetting there’s food on the table When you’re out with someone who doesn’t float your boat, boy, do those garlic mashed potatoes taste good. But if you’re feeling a chemical attraction to someone, the food being served is the last thing on your mind—and not just because you’re nervous. Blame this on elevated levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine, which fuels feelings of desire. Higher levels of dopamine, according to Dr. Fisher, "give you a feeling of lightness, increased energy and a feeling of minor ecstasy. And you’re definitely not hungry!" So if your date seems disappointed that you only ate four bites of your steak, you can clear it up later by explaining what a five-star sign it really is.
YH: no. not really. if there's food on the table, both of us will be THERE'S FOOD ON THE TABLE!
SK: same as above
MR GAP! uh. i could still eat when he was in my view. so i guess. maybe on a 1 on 1 date i'll know. hurhurhur. maybe cause i was hungry just now.
FOOD = FOOD. nothing much can replace it. lah.
Subtle sign #7: You feel more “familiar” with your date than “lusty” Sure, most people think it’s a good sign when they want to jump over the table and rip their date’s clothes off. But let’s be honest—there are plenty of acquaintances you’ve wanted to do that to, and there was no deeper, underlying chemistry there. A stronger sign is that instead of feeling lust for your date, you’re overwhelmed by a feeling of familiarity—a sense of, “Gosh, I feel like I’ve known you before.” The chemistry at work, says Dr. Hendrix, “is due to the emotional center in your brain’s limbic system recognizing qualities in the person that resemble qualities about the caretakers we had during childhood.” For example, a man might recognize a feeling of being at ease and nurtured the way his mother made him feel. A woman might feel comfortable with the dry humor of her date, similar to the way her father interacted with her. “This intense familiarity triggers the release of dopamine, which can lead to that ‘Wow’ feeling,” explains Dr. Hendrix. Oh, and by this point, it’s also definitely OK to want to jump over the table and rip your date’s clothes off!
YH: nope. yiuhei feels too much like a sister to feel lust towards. I'M NOT LESBIAN.
SK: huh. simi lust. that time i like sk in sec 2 i dont even know how a penis look like. now it's just the feeling of old friends. Not a bad one.
MR GAP! nope, no lusty feeling whatsoever, maybe it was my period or maybe its because today's monday [blues]. BUT HE WAS REALLY CUTE.
chem·is·try (kěm'ĭ-strē)
The science of the composition, structure, properties, and reactions of matter, especially of atomic and molecular systems.
The composition, structure, properties, and reactions of a substance.
The elements of a complex entity and their dynamic interrelation: "Now that they had a leader, a restless chemistry possessed the group" (John Updike).
Mutual attraction or sympathy; rapport: The chemistry was good between the partners.
